KATE POSH 4th Anniversary Gifts, 4th Wedding Anniversary Crystal Fruit Paperweight and Keepsake for Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Husband, Wife or Couple. Fruit is the traditional gift for 4 Years Wedding Anniversary Gift. During the fourth year of marriage, flowers represent the growth and blossoming of the relationship, and subsequent ripening as symbolized by fruit. Flowers nurture the soul, and fruit nourishes the body, hence, the expanding commitment and nurturing love of the couple is signified.